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Making a life changing decision can be scary, but whats worse, the fear of change or remaining in the Pain Cycle?

Phase 1: Avoidance Strategy

Most men in this situation you will self-medicate with drugs and alcohol to numb the pain. Others will choose porn to try and distract themselves from their pain, while most men will jump on dating apps and attempt to mend their fractured ego with superficial sexual encounters. Basically anything to “keep yourself busy” and avoid dealing with the issue.

Phase 2: Self-Rescuing

Reading self-help books, watching youtube videos on “how to get over your ex, how to build confidence, how to feel more masculine, how to pick up women” etc.
It’s not uncommon to join a gym to improve your appearance.
You may have made improvements in your mindset and physical body  BUT you haven’t interrupted the faulty childhood programming which has you self-sabotage.

Phase 3: Professional Help

Believe it or not, this phase can sometimes be the most damaging of all three phases.  Finding a great therapist can be like trying to find a needle in a haystack and when poor industry standards let a man down time and time again, he may lose all hope and circle back around to Phase 1 and cause further deterioration to his self-esteem and outlook on life.

It's time to give yourself the permission to thrive, isn't it?

Continue as you are...
Continue reading self-help books that can only take you so far. Keep talking about your problems (which can be liberating and healthy) without a strategy, keeping you stuck in looping patterns, never allowing you to really address and overcome the root cause of your issues. Lastly, continue going from relationship to relationship to fill your inner void, which as you have experienced, is a never-ending quest.
...or choose to thrive
Become the leader of your own life and receive what you truly desire and deserve. You'll be given the opportunity to rid yourself of neediness, insecurities and fears of being rejected andjudged. You'll replace these with confidence, self-assurance, integrity and become a MAN who knows his indisputable worth.
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"Prior to being in The Alpha Code I was debilitated with anger and anxiety and I unconsciously sabotage my relationships. Now I feel light, I no longer struggle with anger and anxiety, my relationship is great and I’m a lot happier. It’s been f#cking brilliant!”
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