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The word “enough” is likely something you have been struggling to believe could ever exist for you. It’s the reason why you find yourself feeling inadequate, insecure, questioning your worth, sizing yourself up against other men and losing yourself in the attempt to “keep” someone who treats you like shit. This vicious cycle can go on life-long if the patterns are not interrupted.
If you’re like some men in this situation you may self-medicate with drugs and alcohol to numb the pain only to realize you are creating more pain and delaying wellness by doing so. Others will engage in unresourceful behaviours such as porn and excessive masturbation to try and distract themselves from their pain, while most men will jump on dating apps and attempt to mend their fractured ego with superficial sexual encounters. Basically anything to “keep yourself busy” and avoid dealing with the core of the issue.
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Here are the 8 personality types we see on a regular basis. Maybe this sounds familiar...
The Nice Guy
The stand up Nice Guy everyone turns to for help. You never say the word “no”. At the drop of a hat, you’re helping friends and family out with odd jobs in your spare time. You feel good helping others but deep down resent them for never offering to give back. You feel you’re being taken advantage of but don’t have the strength or courage to speak up and stand your ground because you can’t stand confrontation.
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The Friend Zone
The guy who can never move past the FRIEND ZONE and most of your friends are women. You are frequently listening to their problems and are trying to help them move through challenges in their personal life. They tell you “you’re such a great listener” and that the woman who ends up with you will be the “luckiest girl on the planet”. Despite being who you believe you NEED to be for women to like you, you can’t work out why they are attracted to ‘bad boys’, not nice guys like you.
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The Rescuer
A heart-centred man who pairs with  women who portray themselves as ‘damsel in distress’.
During the cultivation of these romances, you find great joy in playing the ‘knight in shining armour’ role with these beautiful, yet helpless women. Their inability and lack of capacity to fend for themselves makes you feel wanted, needed and secure. You believe as long as you continue to comfort and soothe them during episodes of emotional distress then they will always need you, which means they would never leave you. This eliminates any chance of them ripping off your scab and exposing the deep child-hood abandonment wounds within you.
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The Avoider
A trip to the bar for another drink, a walk to the bedroom for another wank, or a scavenge through a dating app for another superficial sexual encounter. Any substance or behaviour which has you chasing the highs to avoid the inevitable lows, that will temporarily allow you to distract yourself from intolerable feelings and emotions you have been attempting to dodge life-long.
Moments of solitude scare the fuck out of you and trigger frantic attempts to numb yourself with substances, distract yourself with business or call a friend to fill the gaps in your day so you’re not confronted by having to face your inner demons.
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The Love Addict
You’re attracted to drop-dead gorgeous women who are extremely sexy, seductive and intoxicating. Your relationships begin with an explosion of intimacy and passion. You can’t keep your hands off each other. She’s like no one you have ever met before. She looks at you with an adoring gaze like you could do no wrong. Then not long after the honeymoon period, you begin to see some incongruence in her behaviour, which you choose to turn a blind eye to, and just about the time you knew something was off with this girl it was too late; you’d already drunk her poison and were under her spell. She strategically learned what was beneath the bravado persona you presented to the world and hooked her claws in your fragmented sense-of-self where you are now under her every hypnotic command.
You wrestle with a come here/go away, I love you/I hate you dynamic. Your neediness is pushing her further away each and every day. You began as what you thought was a pretty confident guy and now you’re nothing but a shell of a man.
The only way you can seem to move on is to try and date other women which feels even more empty because you continue to compare the connection and chemistry you shared with your ex.
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The Bad Boy
The BAD BOY who gives off the impression of confidence and self- assurance. Your short fuse and intimidation acts ensure no one messes with you and that you usually get what you want, giving you a false sense of power. Anger is an emotion which fuels you and ensures today, as an adult, you are noticed, respected and even feared. It also means that you keep people at arm’s length, preventing them from seeing how deeply insecure and weak you really are.
Women are initially attracted to your strong personality, confidence and a sense of certainty, until they see how deeply wounded, insecure and emotionally fragile you truly are at the core.
This has them walking away, leaving you feeling anxious, lost and in frantic attempts to sabotage things for her with the next guy so she will come back to you.
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The Business Man
The SUCCESSFUL BUSINESSMAN who is held in high regard by everyone. You have everything that any man would want, the nice house, fast cars and (maybe but not always) attractive women. Your pockets are full but your heart is empty.
You’ve lacked a feeling of significance so you’ve attempted to create evidence in a life which might convince you you’re a man of worth which is based off your wealth. Another target met means another goal set to chase the sharp rise in dopamine followed by a crash.
The busy and chaotic lifestyle means you don’t get to slow down to the speed of your harsh inner critic and emptiness and therefore never truly enjoy everything you have worked so hard for.
You’ve learned that all the success and money in the world can’t buy you true inner contentment or a healthy relationship with a woman who values you for you and not the car you drive or the expensive gifts you trade for her superficial love.
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Maybe you’re a mix of some or even all of these guys, or maybe you have no idea who the fuck you are anymore.

What’s common amongst
these men?
Simply put...
poor self-worth.
The inability to feel deserving or worthy of receiving what we need and desire. Poor self-worth has us attempting to fill the inner void with substance abuse, repeating unresourceful behaviours and MOSTLY pairing with partners who re-activate our insecurities that we’ve retained since childhood.
‍The problem with this is our mental and emotional state is at the mercy of external influencing factors, which will always be outside of our control. This means our primary source of happiness, love and fulfilment is obtained through the outside world as opposed to developing a healthy, loving and self-gratifying relationship wit
Many men have pursued traditional and logical avenues in mental health support. Be this psychologists, psychiatrists, and by sampling a plethora of medications, emotional distractions (sex, drugs and alcohol) and may have scoured the internet looking for answers to no avail.  
By facing the challenging state that men find themselves in today, through the support of the 'Alpha Code Mentors' and The Alpha Code Brotherhood, men are once again finding their way. They’re learning that they stand for more. Are deserving of more. Are worthy as they are today. And have the capacity to create a life that they’re both proud of and eager to share with the world.

The Alpha Code™ Course

The Alpha Code is our foundational 12 week course. Designed specifically for men who have lost their way.

The Alpha Code™ allows you to reconstruct yourself and start life again on your terms. Supported by an international brotherhood, you will guided by highly experienced leaders who have an uncompromising commitment to helping you THRIVE.

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A$4997 one off payment

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Here’s what to expect:

Identity extraction session (one on one) with Alpha Code Founder, Justin Dulihanty (Your personalised Alpha Code)
Emotional clearing session. (depression, anger, anxiety, sadness, guilt & shame)
Online learning and development platform with weekly assignments to strengthen your masculine edge.
Accountibility brother (fellow student)
Dedicated Alpha Code qualified Accountability and Support Leaders.
2 x Weekly group mentoring calls run by Justin Dulihanty.
1 x Weekly group support call.
Lifetime Membership to the Alpha Code Alumni Group - Be supported by your brothers for life.
Tools and strategies to deal with those debilitating mental and emotional states.
Character development - Build a strong sense of self and feel genuine confidence in all areas of life.
Masculine Leadership tools - Become a trustworthy, dependable man other men trust and respect.
Self-worth building tools - become an asset and not just an “option” to women.

US$3300 one off payment

(or 6 payments of $580 on a payment plan)

Here’s what to expect:

Identity extraction session (one on one) with Alpha Code Founder, Justin Dulihanty (Your personalised Alpha Code)
Emotional clearing session. (depression, anger, anxiety, sadness, guilt & shame)
Online learning and development platform with weekly assignments to strengthen your masculine edge.
Accountibility brother (fellow student)
Dedicated Alpha Code qualified Accountability and Support Leaders.
2 x Weekly group mentoring calls run by Justin Dulihanty.
1 x Weekly group support call.
Lifetime Membership to the Alpha Code Alumni Group - Be supported by your brothers for life.
Tools and strategies to deal with those debilitating mental and emotional states.
Character development - Build a strong sense of self and feel genuine confidence in all areas of life.
Masculine Leadership tools - Become a trustworthy, dependable man other men trust and respect.
Self-worth building tools - become an asset and not just an “option” to women.
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